but there are many false allegations also against many young-men and gentlemen. Last evening one of my sons was blamed to mishandle a neighbor girl. the girl is minor. she is a student of class VI and was laughing after accusing him. she changed her statement twice. it was clear to every person listening the story that the allegation was totally baseless and false. her mother lives in this house with her two daughters and a son for their study. She was accusing and abusing continuously. when the boy was called. he explained the whole story. the statement of the mother and daughter of biting the boy changed twice. every boy is disturbed due to this baseless quarrel. the boy is in my touch since last three years. he is a well disciplined young-man. he has helped me a lot during these years and he does not bear involvement of any boy or girl in any kind of gossip while working. he often scolds the boys and girls not to waste their time and work seriously.
One of my friends Late Comrade Khurshid Anwar was blamed of rape by Madhu Kishwar and a caucus helping her. she is a high profile lady running an N.G.O. Khurshid Anwar was tortured badly for many months in every way possible by circulating the video of the girl's statement and writing against him on facebook by the gang behind the allegation. he was cornered so badly that he came to the last decision to commit suicide. He was a rebel pen-person writing continuously against all the wrongs in Islamic terrorism and could not be controlled by any threatening of the fanatic elements.
Eve-teasing, molestation, dowry torture and rape are serious blames and any girl can accuse any boy at any time and then none of us is ready to even listen explanations of the boy or man. everybody stands with the girl. two of my live friends have faced such allegations in last months.
the problem of rape - both real and false - is increasing badly daily. No body knows how to handle it. We are trying to create social awareness among the youth in every way possible in our limitations.
- girijesh
